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Welcome to The Healing Grove, a place for survivors of incest and child sexual assault, abuse, their loved ones, allies, and anyone who cares about this problem. We have links and resources for survivors, their friends and allies, and nonoffending relatives, including 800 numbers and hotlines, plus informative articles and a poetry anthology, A Garden of Healing.   This is the home page for The Yahoo! Groups The Healing Grove and The Healing Grove II.  The Healing Grove website has information for all survivors and allies.  This writer's spiritual path is Wiccan, and our original intent was to provide a special place for Wiccan and pagan survivors.   Recently, many nonpagans have felt drawn to The Healing Grove.  This is a beautiful thing.  Anyone who respects pagan spirituality is welcome here.  We believe in ecumenicism and celebrate inclusiveness!  No one will "evangelize" or otherwise harass another due to race, religion, gender, sexual preference, age, ethnic background, etc.   

If you are conducting research on incest or molestation, we will help you. However, please do not post any requests for volunteers in my guest book or in the Yahoo! groups. See research guidelines for more information.

 


 

  • Inclusiveness

    Maybe its the Universal Life influence, but The Healing Grove attracts nonpagans. Fellow travelers, seekers, New Age, agnostics, even atheists, these nonpagans feel comfortable with Wiccans, witches and pagans. We all find healing and acceptance in The Healing Grove. We respect each other's spiritual paths and support each other in healing. As my home country grows more intolerant, this has been my favorite development.

    Civil Rights for All

    The Healing Grove includes all genders and orientations, including transgendered and intersexed people.   We do not discriminate by race or ethnic background, country of origin, gender, orientation, disability or age.  We do not publish hate speech or tolerate it in our guest book.  

     

  • Wiccan and Pagan Resources

    As promised, we have added Wiccan and Pagan resources to the Healing Grove. We have Mike Nichols' Sabbat Articles, which I often refer to when preparing to celebrate the turning of the wheel of the year. We also have a Welsh traditional lecture by a major, yet little-known figure in late Twentieth Century American witchcraft, Ed Buczynski.   Buczynski was instrumental in bringing the Gardnerian Tradition to America, then went on to found two traditions.  A third, Edwardian Wicca, was recently proclaimed on Witchvox.   The Healing Grove Group has new religious links as well.  If you would like your page included in our website's religious links page, e mail webmistress.  And here's a treat:  a NEW article on finding a teacher you can trust:

    Find a Teacher


  

 

 
 

Sabbat Articles

by Mike Nichols



The Incest Survivor's Aftereffects Checklist


Author and therapist E. Sue Blume has created a powerful tool for incest and molestation survivors. The authorized version, which she has graciously given us permission to share, includes an important preface. While it is geared toward women, the Checklist is also applicable to men. Allies of survivors, including therapists and other professionals, can gain insight into some of the serious aftereffects survivors deal with.   

  Checklist


 

A Garden of Healing Poetry Anthology

The poet John Keats said, "truth is beauty, and beauty truth." It takes great courage to tell the absolute truth, from the depths of your soul. It takes even more courage to show that truth to the world. For survivors of incest, molestation, and other abuse, the challenge is magnified a thousandfold. These poets have overcome shame, powerlessness, threats, fear, even danger to their lives, to share their truth. The act of taking your emotions, your pain, the ugliness of your past and shaping it into art, of expressing your soul's truth, is incredibly powerful. It frees our minds and spirits.

Reading these poems can be difficult, especially if you are a survivor. They aren't graphic or explicit, yet the emotions they evoke are very strong. So go slowly and savor them. And know you are not alone. If you are not a survivor, you have been given a precious gift. You will gain insight into the pain of abuse, the consolation of spirituality, and the transformative power of creativity. Above all, you will see the beauty, grace and courage of the human spirit. If you have a poem you would like to share, please e mail webmistress.

 Poetry


Submissions

The Healing Grove is for all Wiccan and Pagan survivors of incest and molestation, and their allies, including nonoffending relatives. Submissions are very welcome. We also accept work by nonpagan allies and professionals, such as The Incest Survivor's Aftereffects Checklist by E. Sue Blume, or the Gift to the Healing Grove poem by Clara Gerl. Ecumenical or interfaith works by survivors are equally welcome. If you have a story (fiction or nonfiction), essay, book review or poem to share, please e mail us for writers' guidelines. All rights are retained by the writers.